Congratulations, Maryland grooms-to-be! This is your article. As you embark on your journey towards matrimony, one of the decisions you’ll make is choosing the perfect attire for your big day. Whether you’re leaning towards a classic suit or a timeless tuxedo, mastering the art of suiting up requires attention to detail and a keen understanding of the rules of thumb that govern men’s formalwear. Let’s delve into the essential guidelines to ensure you look your absolute best as you exchange vows in the fashionesque landscapes of Maryland.

We’re going to cut to the chase. If your suit has more than 2 buttons –we’re side eying you. Even when you’re wearing a two button suit, make sure that your suit fits properly. Properly doesnt mean “tight”, it means that the suit lays to the contours of your body type, because it is possible for a suit to be too small. When you cannot smoothly button that top button–the suit or tuxedo is likely too small. Now, if the suit is fitting perfectly, a double breasted suit elevates the game and leaves no money on the table because you “look like money”.

RJ’s Biggest Rules of Thumb

• Either get a one button tux, or ensure you button that top button ONLY—not the middle, not the bottom—button the top ONLY
• Make sure your dress shirt snuggly goes around neck
• Tuck that chain on the inside of tht dress shirt fam. It might seem smooth —but it ain’t playa
• In the back of your tux are “splits”, otherwise known as “vents” —snatch the cross stitch that keeps the vent closed. I promise it won’t mess the suit up
• If you buy new suits, the designer usually places a maker tag on the bottom of the left sleeve—take it off.
• Button when standing, unbutton before you sit.
• Line your shirt’s buttons up with the zipper
• Bottom of your tie should come to your buckle
• Vests are always buttoned up

Understanding the Occasion:

Before delving into the specifics of suits and tuxedos, it’s crucial to understand the tone and setting of your wedding day. Maryland offers a diverse range of wedding venues, from rustic barns nestled in the countryside to elegant ballrooms in bustling cities like Baltimore. Consider the ambiance you wish to create and how your attire can complement the overall aesthetic of the celebration.

The Difference Between Suits vs. Tuxedos:

While both suits and tuxedos provide sophistication, they cater to different levels of formality. Suits are versatile and can be worn for various occasions beyond the wedding day. Opt for a well-tailored suit in classic colors like navy, charcoal, or black for a refined yet contemporary look. On the other hand, tuxedos elevate the elegance piece with their satin lapels and matching trousers. For a traditional Maryland wedding, a tuxedo adds a touch of timeless charm, especially for evening affairs or formal ceremonies.

Fit Matters:

Regardless of whether you choose a suit or a tuxedo, the fit reigns supreme. Ill-fitting attire can detract from your overall appearance. Sometimes kings think baggier (loose fitting) suits are the better look for their event but in 2024 a tailored jacket . Ensure that your suit or tuxedo is tailored to perfection, hugging your frame in all the right places. Pay attention to the length of the sleeves and trousers, the shoulder seams, and the waistline to achieve a polished silhouette that exudes confidence.

Accessorize with Flair:

Accessories play a pivotal role in elevating your ensemble from ordinary to extraordinary. A well-chosen tie or bowtie adds a pop of color and personality to your attire, while a pocket square injects a dash of sophistication. Consider incorporating subtle nods to Maryland’s culture and heritage through your accessories, whether it’s a crab-shaped lapel pin or cufflinks featuring the state flag. Remember, it’s the little details that make a big difference.

If you choose to wear a boutonniere for your occasion, just remember to place it on your left lapel

Shoes Speak Volumes:

Don’t overlook the importance of footwear when finalizing your wedding day look. A sleek pair of leather oxfords or brogues complements both suits and tuxedos, exuding elegance with every step you take. Opt for a classic black or brown hue that seamlessly integrates with your chosen attire. Ensure that your shoes are well-polished and comfortable to wear throughout the festivities, from the ceremony to the dance floor.

How Maryland Grooms Can Embrace Personal Style:

While adhering to the rules of formalwear is essential, don’t be afraid to infuse your personality into your wedding day ensemble. Whether it’s a subtle patterned shirt, a statement accessory, or a bespoke monogram on your cufflinks, embrace elements that reflect your unique style and preferences. After all, your wedding day is a celebration of love, individuality, and shared memories. If its a suit situation, sometimes a clean pair of Jordan Air 1s can be a great talking piece. Not as often is the case for tuxedos unless you’re attending sneaker balls or hip hop centric events that have a strong appreciation with the grand connection between hip hop, and basketball sneakers. We may have to do a separate article on the vibe and talking piece added when sneakers and good suits come in the mix at events.

Final Thoughts:

As you prepare to exchange vows amidst the picturesque landscapes of Maryland, remember that your attire is a reflection of your commitment, style, and personality. Whether you opt for a classic suit or a timeless tuxedo, adhere to the rules of thumb outlined above to ensure a sartorially splendid wedding day. Maryland grooms, it’s time to suit up and embark on the journey of a lifetime with confidence, grace, and impeccable style.